Peacemaker Divorce Mediation Blog

Divorce mediation has become a popular option for couples seeking to resolve their differences amicably and efficiently. Successful mediation often occurs when both parties prioritize the well-being of their children and approach discussions with a collaborative mindset. By choosing mediation, couples can avoid the lengthy and costly process of divorce litigation and court appearances. Below…

As a divorce mediator, one of the most frequently asked questions I receive is, “How do we tell the children about our divorce or separation?” My clients often seek guidance not only on the right timing but also on the most appropriate words to use when sharing this life-altering news with their children. This conversation…

In New York, “Maintenance” is simply another word for “Alimony.” Maintenance is a legal obligation placed on one spouse (the spouse with greater income) to provide financial support for the other spouse (the spouse with less or no income) for a specified duration of time. If your divorce was commenced after January 25, 2016, the…

Building a dedicated team of professionals to support my clients in various aspects of the divorce mediation process is a holistic approach to divorce. The mediation process is not just about addressing legal matters, but also about addressing the practical and emotional aspects that come with divorce. An important goal of the divorce mediation process…

One of the many topics discussed during divorce mediation is parenting time with the children.  My clients often ask whether an equal, or 50/50 parenting schedule, eliminates the child support obligation. The short answer is NO; but because mediation gives clients the flexibility and power to create their own agreement, there are options to consider. …

During the mediation consultation, clients often ask what documents and information they need to gather to prepare for mediation. It’s important to understand that the more time spent preparing outside of mediation, the more efficient mediation will go, which may result in substantial time and cost savings. In this article, you will find some helpful…

One of the many uncomfortable conversations that I often need to have with my mediation clients involves the sensitive topic of retirement assets. As you can imagine, the division of retirement assets can be a very emotional topic; both for the retirement asset holder and for the spouse who may not have had the opportunity…

New York Courts Rollout Presumptive Mediation in Matrimonial CasesIn an effort to quell the volume of divorce litigation in New York Courts, Presumptive Mediation is being rolled out for matrimonial cases this September. Whether or not couples choose the path of mediation, the Courts now say couples should at least try it, and are putting…

If you are getting married, going through a divorce, or even contemplating divorce, one of the many questions to ask yourself is how does the law in your state divide property upon divorce. If you litigate your divorce in the State of New York, the court will apply the Law of Equitable Distribution. The term…

People are often disappointed after choosing to litigate their divorces. What they thought would be a forum to air their grievances with their spouse may turn out to be a high-pressure, high-cost ordeal that lasts half a decade. In this article, I present two options — a non-fiction Choose Your Own Path if you will.…